Family #1 manages to pay off $40,000 in debt in two years on a $35,000
annual income. Family #2 makes $100,000 a year but can't seem to make
the slightest dent in the same amount of debt.
Why is that?
Obviously,
the second family has a spending problem. They make plenty of
money—more than enough to pay off that debt in two years. But they have
so much money going out, they can't keep their head above water. Whether
it's in the form of an overbearing mortgage, credit cards, a hefty car
payment or just making poor choices like eating out every night, their
debt keeps them from making progress.
So all of their income gets
sucked up by other stuff, which leaves them making minimum payments on
their debts and never gathering any momentum. It's a difficult,
stressful way to live.
At some point, people who become debt-free
decide that enough is enough. Their old lifestyle wasn't working, and
they're ready to make some serious changes. It's like they have a
personality change, but that's not what really happens. All they are
doing is rediscovering aspects of their personality that have always
been there.
So what are some of these traits of people who get debt-free?
They are wise.
People
who decide to ditch debt for good realize that debt isn't a tool. While
their FICO score may go down, their net worth goes up. They treat debt
like it's a skin disease—which isn't a bad idea. Don't you wish you
could wipe away debt with a little Benadryl cream?
They are patient.
Someone
who really wants out of debt can walk right past the shoe aisle or the
flat-screen TV aisle without blinking. Why? Because they know all of
that stuff can wait. Impulsive, impatient purchases are debt's best
friend.
They are confident.
People who are getting out of debt
don't care what others think. You know you're on the right track when
your broke friends are making fun of you. Getting out of debt can
require drastic lifestyle changes, which means you'll never succeed if
you aren't mentally prepared and confident in your decision to find
financial peace.
They are goal-driven.
No-brainer, right?
Getting out of debt is a goal in itself, so of course people who want to
get out of debt are goal-oriented. But the catch here is that these
people do more than just set goals—they map out how they plan to get
there. That's what Dave's Baby Steps are all about—small goals that lead
to the one giant goal of being debt-free!
They are responsible.
Getting
out of debt takes a sense of responsibility and maturity—two traits
that match up well with patience. And maturity has nothing to do with
age. Some 50 year olds still treat money the same way they did when they
were 20. They just have more of it now. When you're responsible, you
want to get out of debt as fast as possible so you can begin saving,
putting money into a college fund, investing, and paying off the
mortgage early.
They are not materialistic.
Becoming debt-free
isn't about stocking a garage full of cars and living in an
eight-bedroom house. The purpose is to change your family tree for
generations to come, helping others along the way. Materialism can
affect any of us—rich or poor. It's all about how much importance we
place on stuff.
They are willing to make sacrifices.
Eating
out. Cable. Going to movies every week. These are the types of things
that might have to go while you're getting out of debt. But keep in
mind: Budget cuts are just temporary. When you're debt-free, you can
begin slowly adding those things back into your lifestyle.
The bottom line? You have to be motivated and do something about it over time.
If
you want to get out of debt, you can get out of debt—no matter how much
money you owe. Even if you don't think you're particularly strong in
all of these characteristics, you'll be amazed at how your perception of
“wants” and “needs” will change once you start the Baby Steps.
When
you're motivated, passionate and even a little angry, you're more than
willing to do whatever is needed to find financial peace. Everything
else will take care of itself.
Source: http://www.daveramsey.com/blog/7-characteristics-of-debt-free-people
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